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Sep 18, 2016
I've stopped contact... He hasn't
I left my abusive partner 18 months ago and stopped contact - declined to talk to him or respond after about 3 months. After this I started receiving
Sep 18, 2016
Lack of Money
There always seems a lack of money. She is never satisfied with what I provide. There is never enough money. No matter how much there it's never enough.
Jul 31, 2016
Subjected to No Contact
Hello, She cut all the contact with me, and it was very painful, because I loved her. Through her friends I indirectly found that I've been accused of
Jul 30, 2016
I know the feeling.
Hello Julie, My name is krystal, I am 20 years old, with two wonderful little boys, one is four about to be five, one is almost two months. A year ago
Jul 30, 2016
Suffering 2
I have previously written another article about my partner, about financial abuse. He also physically abuse me, in many occasion I been to the doctor::
Jul 30, 2016
Suffering
I have been living with my partner for two years, before I meet I had money on my credit card and bank account: he used all of that and now he denies doing
Jun 15, 2016
Each return makes it a little worse
Nola, and to anyone else in the same situation, I have been there. I was a victim of domestic violence, domestic abuse, verbal abuse, coercive control,
Jun 15, 2016
if things go bad
Nola if things go bad you have to promise this to yourself and your kids: that you will leave. You owe it to yourself. You can't live like that again.
Jun 10, 2016
Certified Child and Family advocate
Thank You for your interest in financial abuse. I had had a long time partner who had lived in my home with me. My home had been paid off and I had no
Jun 09, 2016
child abuse and domestic violence
Erin grew up experiencing child abuse and witnessing domestic violence. By 26 she had already experienced far too much child abuse and domestic violence.
Jun 08, 2016
Domestic Violence Poems 3
Domestic violence poems about their experiences of and feelings about abusive relationships by survivors of domestic violence and abuse, and the Joy of finally being free of abuse!
May 29, 2016
Bipolar justification for abuse?
I live in abuse everyday. I was diagnosed with bipolar last year when my abuser told me i had to check into the mental hospital or he would kick me out
May 29, 2016
the love for your kids is stronger than anything
I know leaving might not be easy, but just as you remember your father beating your mom don't let that be the memory that your daughters and sons have!
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May 29, 2016
Someone to reach out to?
Hi Julie. My name is Seher. I'm married with 2 kids, they're the world to me. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. If you need someone to talk to,
May 29, 2016
Julie's Domestic Violence Story
Julie's domestic violence story comes from a very brave woman, who despite still being a current victim of abuse, still thinks and cares enough about other domestic abuse victims to want to tell her story and warn them.
May 29, 2016
Hi Julie - I want to give you a gift
Hi Julie, I really hope this message reaches you. I’ve read the comments and you seem to have gotten better which is outstanding news! My name is Ethan,
May 29, 2016
But He's My Husband
Hi my name is Lisa. I'm 40 years old and have been married for two years to my abuser. I love my husband and I fear my husband. I always wanted to be
May 25, 2016
Too close for comfort
My ex narc discarded me about 7 months ago after a 2 month hoover in which I fell for. Said he was only back to socialize. That drove me in to full no
May 25, 2016
Finally... NO CONTACT
Abused off and on for 9 years. Discarded/devalued more times than I could count. He always hoovered me back in. THIS time ... I'd had enough. His devaluation
May 25, 2016
Absolutely no Contact
Has the No Contact Rule helped with your recovery or helped to keep you safe? What can I say ... years of therapy and the single most important strategy
May 25, 2016
No contact is different than no response.
No Contact: when I finally realized my ex was an N was pivotal in my recovery. I still left openings at first for him to play games and please don't mistake
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May 25, 2016
Rockin' in Rockford
For me, the 4th time was the charm and it was actually pretty easy because I was finally ready. I already knew what he was and there was no hope. I already
May 23, 2016
No contact is beautiful
Rarely in life can you achieve so much by doing NOTHING. And doing nothing is just what going No Contact is. it is NOT returning the calls, not answering
May 23, 2016
Domesticide
I went out with a man I knew was danger, but I thought I could handle it. Rebellion is my middle name and there was a lot going on that I wanted to escape
May 23, 2016
Don't take any notice of them - BE STRONG :)
I have had to learn not to take any notice of them and what they say, but to BE STRONG. I have been split from my abuser two years, and it's very hard.
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May 23, 2016
Withholding money after an Argument
I suffered all of the forms of financial abuse mentioned in the page on financial abuse. But as well as those mentioned, he would withhold money for me
May 22, 2016
Stuck in Poverty
I feel as though throughout my whole marriage I was stuck in poverty, My husband frequently quit jobs, or took farming or part time jobs, earning little
May 22, 2016
You can do this
You can do this. It apparently takes 7 attempts on average to leave an abusive relationship. I had tried to leave so many times. When I finally left
Oct 12, 2015
Sorry for this but i want to make this change
Sorry for this but i want to make this change. Reading through everything you have gone through and continue to go through, I am determined to help make
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