Strength and courage

by Lisa

Hi Julie, my name is Lisa and I am also looking for strength and courage, as I am in the same situation as you - looking for strength and courage to get out of an abusive relationship and be able to start again in peace. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel, it is just so terrifying to take that first step and find the courage to get out there and admit that I need help!

Just 2 hours ago I was frightened for my life at 3 am in the morning because he came here to to get in my house. But thank goodness he didn't get in. I have been in this abusive relationship now for 5 years and I am trying to get out ... he has used weapons on me and tried to set me on fire.

I am so afraid of my life he - stalks and follows me. So you see, you are not alone in being frightened, but please, please be brave and courageous and find the strength to try and get some help! He is not going to change ...

Please stay as safe as you can at the moment and then get yourself to a safe place, as I am trying to as well. I have to get high security to be put in my place as I am so afraid of what he will do to me your.

Please remember Julie, you not alone, even if it feels like it at times. I feel your pain and so do may others who have been or are still in the sort of abusive relationship in which you find yourself.