Don't take any notice of them - BE STRONG :)

by Tabby :)
(UK)

I have had to learn not to take any notice of them and what they say, but to BE STRONG.

I have been split from my abuser two years, and it's very hard. So easy to go back but they will only ever use it against you more, eg. that you left, they say you're a bad person for leaving them. You're the one who cannot be trusted etc.

My ex uses our daughter as a weapon. He tells her to say nasty things to me, and to my partner, tells her I'm a bad mum and loads more.

He used solicitors also, by lying to them: making stuff up about me.

He uses his girl friend's baby to try to make me jealous.

But I won't ever go back - I will stay with my new man.

When getting new relationship be very careful! And when leaving one, remember not to believe anything they say - just take no notice of what they say and remain strong.